Anonymous asked: I'm not sure if this is just me, but I've never understood why people would want to have sex. I mean, you are literally just rubbing ~genitals~ and swapping fluids. It just seems super gross. *shudders*
same. well I do understand the “it’s necessary to make babies” part when it’s about PiV sex. for that same reason for the longest time I didn’t understand why people needed birth-control…
but other sex is kinda weird if you look at it from a complete outside perspective.
"let us rub our genitals together and swap various body fluids because it feels good and we like each other" so weird.
Maybe it’s just me, but I think saying “sex is kinda weird if you look at it from a complete outside perspective” is a very narrow-minded viewpoint, even if you’re talking about anal, oral, or anything that isn’t penetrative, can-possibly-make-a-baby sex.
Okay, you don’t like the idea of sex, or you think it’s gross, or you don’t get the point because you don’t desire it. That’s fine. I don’t think there’s a point to sex, but I don’t think it’s weird that people who either like the feeling of sex or experience sexual desire want to have it and with the people they’re having it with. (And this is coming from me, who has a .01% libido and is asexual.)
There’s no reason to take a shit on someone else’s parade just because something is not up your alley and it happens to go right up there’s (lololol). As these say, rubbing genitals and swapping fluids isn’t weird. Fine if it’s not your preference, but it’s someone else’s and don’t judge them for it. (I’m not saying these posters are judging necessarily, but I have seen it happen.)